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Pink Metal is a well–kept Bushwick secret that’s one–of–a–kind.
Why we love it: Drop by for a signature cocktail (or mocktail) and stick around for fetish figure drawing, drag bingo or a burlesque show. Here’s why they’re a must-visit:
- Freedom to Be Yourself
These clubs offer a rare space where judgment fades, and self-expression reigns.You do you.
Time Out tip: Animal is dedicated to being a judgement–free community space: Everyone is welcome as well as they uphold a code of conduct that bans any type of discrimination or harassment—it’s great for a birthday party, and cakes are welcome (as long as you bring the plates and silverware, too).
Address: 307 Meeker Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11211
Opening hours: Mon–Fri 4pm–4am;, Sat, Sun 4pm–2am
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9. Good Judy
What is it?This trendy Park Slope gay bar is totally where the cool queers hang out and for good reason.
Why we love it:It’s unpretentious yet stylish and offers top–notch drinks, space to chat and plenty of dance floor to groove, a true crowd–pleaser for all.
Knowing your goal shapes your approach—lurk in the shadows or own the bar.
Been there, done that? Established in 1864, this is New York’s oldest operating gay bar, and the rich sense of history and community here are palpable.
Why we love it:Thanks to a resurgence in popularity in recent years, the crowd has an intergenerational mix; longtime patrons sip their drafts at the long wooden bar, while younger groups tend to gather at tables in the back and wolf down cheap eats from the in–house grill.
Back then, Barracuda was known as a den of Bohemia - the kind of place where you'd see Eartha Kitt or Nathan Lane and where Broadway celebs would jump onstage and sing a cappella.
Today, Barracuda is still going strong, with very friendly and welcoming atmosphere, hosted by some New York's drag luminaries like Sherry Vine and actress Candis Cayne.
Note: The place is small, but that's part of its charm.
Nearest station: 23rd Street
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Mon:18:00 - 04:00
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Sun:18:00 - 04:00
Last updated on: 24 Mar 2025
Last updated on: 24-Mar-2025
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Lucky Cheng's is the original home of the drag dinner.
If it’s not mutual, no sweat—move on with a smile.
Best Gay Bars in New York City
Home to what is arguably the world's most famous gay bar, The Stonewall Inn, New York is a world leader when it comes to gay nightlife. Visit in the colder months for PBRs by the fireplace and in warmer weather for backyard BBQs every Sun between Memorial Day and Labor Day.
Address: 559 Lorimer St, Brooklyn, NY 11211
Opening hours: Daily 3pm–4am
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16. Nowhere
What is it?A friendly, spacious bar with an intimacy–heightening low ceiling, Nowhere attracts Manhattan’s scruffier crowds—and the place is filled with everyone from dykes to bears, thanks to a fun lineup of theme nights.
Why we love it: There's no official dance floor, but don't be surprised to find yourself bopping along to disco, rock, new wave and whatever else the DJ feels like spinning.
Time Out tip: Happy hour is all day on Sundays!
Address: 322 E 14th St, New York, NY 10003
Opening hours: Mon–Sat 3pm–4am, Sun 3pm–2am,
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17. 3 Dollar Bill
What is it? Enjoy drinks in the lovely queer owned and operated Americana bar 3 Dollar Bill, which features shows and events like Sun BBQ parties; then head to the fabulous warehouse space in the back of the venue, for thumping dance parties every night guided by sound systems inherited from venues like the Roseland Ballroom.
Why we love it: Some of the best drag performers and DJs in the city have begun their takeovers here; get in early and join the community.
Time Out tip: If you like to dress up, visit for weekend themed parties, like a Charlie XCX underwear party.
Address: 260 Meserole St, Brooklyn, NY 11206
Hours: Daily 5pm–4am
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18. Phoenix
What is it?This local watering hole has been a favorite on the queer East Village circuit ever since it burst onto the scene back in the ’90s.
Fetish nights draw a kinky, mixed crowd.
- Hawk’s PDX – Portland (NYC Guest Events)
- Why It’s Top: Portland’s Hawk’s PDX hosts NYC takeovers with mazes and blackout nights. Whether you’re cruising or chatting, the experience sharpens your edge, inside and out.
- Unexpected Connections
Beyond the play areas, lounges and bars foster mingling.A friend can ease you in, making it less daunting and more fun.
- Stay Sharp: Hydrate, use protection, and keep substances light—you’ll want full control of the night.
Top 10 Gay Sex Clubs in NYC
Here’s the rundown of NYC’s top 10 gay sex clubs, each a standout for its atmosphere and offerings.
The West Village is a classic destination for queer nightlife, but you’ll find something exciting and welcoming in pretty much any part of the city.
You can check out the best drag shows or cabaret performances, but these queer spaces all offer something unique, from cozy vibes and cheap drinks to high-energy dancing and brunch parties - sometimes in the same place on different days!
You might leave with a hot encounter, a new pal, or both—the crowd’s as diverse as the city itself.
Dark rooms, themed events, and spontaneous vibes deliver an adrenaline hit that beats any bar crawl. It’s grunge-meets-grind.
- Slammer Club – Los Angeles (NYC Pop-Up Events)
- Why It’s Top: Known for LA’s raunch, Slammer Club occasionally pops up in NYC with slings and glory holes.
Dress smart casual, though a jacket is not required.
Nearest station: Lexington Ave / 59th Street
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Mon:16:00 - 03:00
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Sat:16:00 - 04:00
Sun:16:00 - 04:00
Last updated on: 30 Jan 2025
Last updated on: 30-Jan-2025
Barracuda Lounge - CLOSED
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This historic gay bar closed in March 2025
A much loved gay bar in New York since 1995.
And don’t be afraid to go inside, where an excellent DJ or drag queen is surely keeping the crowd shrieking and/or dancing.
Time Out tip: Metro is an all-seasons dive! Like the best LGBTQ+ spaces, Cubbyhole is one of a kind.
Time Out tip: Visit daily from 4 pm – 7pm when happy hour includes great deals like $5 beers.
Address: 281 W 12th St, New York, NY 10014
Opening hours: Mon–Thu 4pm– 2am; Fri 4pm–4am; Sat 2pm –4am; Sun 2pm–2am
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2. Albatross Bar
What is it? This longtime Astoria gay bar is consistently crowded, bringing out residents from across the borough and beyond for drink specials, intimate drag shows, and just a good, gay old time.
Why we love it: It’s a dive with a vibe, and if you’re lucky enough to become a regular, you’re never leaving.
Time Out tip: Check social media for frequent updates on events, including trivia, bar crawls, and, of course, drag nights.
Address: 3619 24th Ave, Astoria, NY 11103
Opening hours: Mon–Fri 5pm–4am, Sat, Sun 4pm–4am
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3. The Stonewall Inn
What is it?
The site’s Portland-based—watch for updates.
- Rainbow Playground Men’s Club – Queens
- Why It’s Top: Rainbow Playground Men’s Club in Long Island City offers booths, slings, and Latin-themed nights. It’s offbeat but electric when queer-focused.
- Finding It: Google “Club Labyrinth gay events.” The site lists schedules—check for themed nights.
How to Find NYC’s Best Gay Sex Clubs
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- Paddles NYC – Chelsea
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There is something for everyone in the city that never sleeps.
Line your stomach and enjoy world-class drag talent at Lucky Cheng’s; the original home of the drag dinner.